The cosmos is full of stupid people.

Sometimes it feels like you get more than their fair share of interaction with all the wrong ones. It can drive you crazy.

And if you do not have a plan, stupid people will derail all the dreams and ambitions you have. They are the black hole of all that is positive and hopeful for the future. The soul-sucking vacuum of cosmic destiny.

You may be thinking

Who are these people stupid

Simple. They are idiots and imbeciles who emotionally to fight at all times.

They are mentors, coaches, or friends and supporters.

No. These people are different from those.

When you decide to invest in their own physical and mental improvement, what their mission of bringing back to reality. They are the masters of never going to work and let's see how long. (There is more discussion.)

These announcements standards and excellence and achievement, but only in areas that they believe they have an advantage. It's really what they need to feel better than you. And not because I feel the need to pursue excellence, but because they will scale surpassing any esoteric somehow relieves their feelings of inadequacy guilty.

This is what you need to know

Stupid people have given up nothing but mediocrity for a long time.

The problem is that you can not admit. After all, who walks around with an I Love mediocrity t-shirt That is not even close to being in style. So instead of trying to overcome and change the world, stupid people make it their mission to destroy, ridicule and otherwise marginalize anything (and anyone), reminding them that it is not the person seeking to be .

So, How can you better manage people stupid

There is no simple formula. As he stepped on a poisonous spider, sometimes you just take any old shoe that is there and hit it.

Shoes. Books. A fireplace damper. Whatever it takes to crush the poison of their bite.

So here are 6 (not so easy at times) the measures necessary to manage the stupid.

You can use one of these or all of these. You choose.

1. Rate your opinions

Just add in my opinion, anything you ever say stupid people.

Have you noticed that most seem to doubt that the loudest voices

You can disarm the negativity by discounting everything they say with simple mental qualifier in my opinion.

Instead of listening to a stupid person to say never going to work mentally what qualifies as in my opinion, it will not work. And, frankly, I do not hurt either. Does it

The reality is that your opinion does not matter anyway. For to qualify what they say, reaffirming that yourself.

2. Lowering the bar

Expect less. it's amazing how tolerant can be anticipated when even the smallest of mercies.

We are programmed to give others the benefit of the doubt. We tend to think that at the end of the day, others will do the right thing for us. In the end truth will triumph over all that is wrong.

Stop thinking that (about stupid people). You're ready for a quick shoe pants.

Expect relentless ridicule, distorted emotional falseness and injustice hyperbolic.

It's powerful for you when you come prepared mentally.

3. Class be on purpose

Out of their way to be thankful for critics who demand perfection from you.

They are not to be comprehensive. Or fair. Require that they have a purpose in every word and action.

If demand excellence of yourself, demand a much higher level. It is the responsibility of steroids.

And in a strange sort of twisted I love the pain, so, you should be grateful. You get the Olympic coach bustery ball and not have to pay a dime. How cool is that

It acts as a champion. Raise the head.

4. Selectively participate

Avoid controversy. It's that easy.

Whatever you do, do not debate with them. For them, the debate is the goal. They want you nervous, emotional and confusing. That makes you smile inside.

So do not let them win. Do you know the issues that will become a senseless debate. Skip the hot the conversation.

Do not put yourself in the position of emotional instability of trying to persuade fighters unpersuadable.

You will lose all the time.

5. Completely ignore

Exclude them from your mind. Absolutely. Act as if they existed.

Do not look at them, talk with them or listen to anything they have to say.

The truth is that probably some things to say. Among the pettiness and the general sense that throw you, there is a truth and a quiet glow.

Here's why it does not matter. They will not listen anyway. The pain of his hatred clouds really any value to offer.

So they ignore while you recover.

6. Get Fit (finally)

No, not literally. (Although a part of you wants to go there.) Sometimes you need to get violent ... strategically. This is rare. And especially unwise. But it is usually the last straw. You can not be intimidated. It is not safe.

When skeptics become dangerous that need to be sure.

Closing our eyes to the skeptics that it is not the same as being reckless. Sometimes you have to go back.

Is that the Old Testament brand of an eye for an eye. Do not start here. But if you see here, be prepared to spend a bold bluff in one bold step.

Return to believe.

Get Serious about your future. Stupid people do not magically fix your roads and become mostly encouraging.

They do not care one bit to help make their dreams and ambitions.