Are you a parent of young children Do they sometimes  often behave badly Are you at wits end If so read on, it's too late! Now, no doubt you've seen the programs parenting as Super Nanny and envied the experts down at home to help their children deal with rebels. My heart really is with some of the parents (and did) the children are in those programs. Calm and falls on the home and the Super Nanny continues its merry way, as Mary Poppins who brought peace and harmony of a house under siege!

If only real life were like that For most working parents with children with behavior problems is the best challenging and at worst, a kind of life hell!

Now I've made a discovery, and is a secret a lot of behavioral programs for children on television certainly does not occupy. You see, tend to focus on the behavior or misbehavior and therefore, the techniques of behavior modification, etc. The bad step seems to become the must have tool for anyone dealing with stressed parents and deliberate conduct a stubborn child.

What many of these programs do not take into account is the psychology of the child in relation to the biochemistry of the brain and the effects of that. Now I want to highlight here I'm not trying to medicalized the behavior of a naughty child and it is clear that there are some medical conditions such as attention deficit disorder (ADD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) diagnosis is needed.

No, what I'm talking about here is the effect of hormones in the brain called cortisol. Log in emotional states noted adrenal glands causes the body to release hormones in the brain called toxic cortisol.The science shows that before a child misbehaves is a release of excessive amounts of cortisol in the brain. Essentially therefore, if a child is under stress or stimulated hormone in excess is toxic in play. Therefore, if a child becomes hyperactive, defiant, argumentative, out of focus, and even physical violence can be seen as a direct result of what's happening in your brain at the time.

I think you'll agree that this discovery explains many things After all makes sense, all get stressed from time to time and behave irrationally, as a result Just look road rage, where drivers cut each other and behave in a totally illogical.

It is important to note here that the stress is not the sole cause of the misbehavior of a child, but is one of the three main causes identified by experts in the child's brain. The other two are to have a real need or just do not understand something.

Another important factor is that all the experts in calling behavior based on models of punishment and reward. If you want to get rid of the bad behavior of constant stress and has a son who is genuinely cooperative, loving, intelligent, focused and happy life that need to focus on the techniques of different disciplines that are not based on reward or punishment. These are the least effective methods of getting a child to listen and methods cooperate.These age can potentially have consequences for life in the reduction of self-esteem and confidence.